Purpose Lab Resources

And my final advice on that is your purpose is always developing. So don't get discouraged. I feel like a lot of people get frustrated because when they understand more about their purpose, say through astrology, they don't have the whole plan from A to Z laid out in front of them. And most of them are left with, well, what's next? That feeling of, okay, well, what do I do now? Okay, I know I'm supposed to work with this, and now what? So, the now what is going to depend on your level of focus, your level of dedication, and with time, you're going to build on that. What may start as an original intention may develop into something else. So, be open. Know that your purpose is always going to be developing. It's always going to be expanding. And it should feel good. If it doesn't feel good, then go back within. Ask some more questions. Because when you're living your purpose, it should feel good.

There is nothing more beautiful than seeing someone living their purpose. That beauty comes from inside. It shines from inside. It exudes like a perfume and it is intoxicating in the most beautiful ways. You become more charismatic. You become more alive. You become more influential. You make more connections. So when you step into your purpose, when I stepped into my purpose, it was from night to day. The way the world responded to me was so different entirely from all those 31 years or 32 years up until that point that I had lived my life until coming into astrology. It was a night-to-day shift. The world started to respond to me with sovereignty, with wonder, with receptivity, in a way that I had never experienced before. This only gave me more confidence that this was my path.

I was interested in accessing deeper wisdom about myself, and I was just submerged into many different systems for many years, over a decade of studying very deeply different systems to understand human personality and human behavior. So, be open and receptive. Find a good system, a good teacher, a good mentor, and then take steps. There are many different systems out there and it's really fascinating once you see the same message displayed in all the systems. You really know there is no shadow of doubt.

In astrology, we see through people's charts that their purpose, their destiny, is 95% of the time something that most people resist. This is my main function in the work that I do through the school I have and the sessions I give: to help people understand what really matters. This is the punch in the gut I was talking about, that sense of responsibility, because deep inside you know, and the punch in the gut comes from knowing that you've been running away from it, underestimating it, pushing it away when it's the one thing you should be making a priority in your life. For example, just yesterday I was sitting with this woman who had a purpose with Leo. This is to embrace the solar aspect of her identity. These people are very creative. These people have to be on either stage or in a place where they can receive attention and recognition as well. But because this is their path of evolution, most of them run away from it. This woman that I was with, she said, 'When I was born, when I was a young child, I had this impression that I was born to be famous and it never happened.' She actually gave up on her dreams when she was very young. She was a musician, an artist, and that was her path. I said, 'Well, the reason why you were born with that knowing is because that was your destiny. That is still your destiny.'

There are many different systems out there and it's really fascinating once you see the same message displayed in all the systems. You really know there is no shadow of doubt. So find a system that you resonate with, someone that can help you navigate through this and start to refine what your process is. So, be open and receptive. Find a good system, a good teacher, a good mentor, and then take steps. I tell my students all the time, you're never going to get anywhere with astrology if you don't practice. Practice with your friends. Practice. Take steps. I was interested in accessing deeper wisdom about myself, and I was just submerged into many different systems for many years, over a decade of studying very deeply different systems to understand human personality and human behavior.

When I came into astrology, it was such a powerful, life-changing experience for me. Right after that, I found out I was a fourth-generation astrologer. My father remembered to tell me, and he didn't tell me before because I was born and raised in a cult and that information was not revealed to me there. After I left the cult at the age of 27 and came into astrology, my father said, 'Oh yeah, it runs in our lineage.' This was the first time that I felt this conviction with a system before. I never felt that with any other system where I was compelled to use it to help other people. The moment that I had that aha feeling, it wasn't just an aha of being excited and surprised, it was a deep, impactful, sobering punch in the gut, literally, because it was that sense of responsibility with why I was here. So when I realized that through my chart, I was in shock and I said, 'No, anything but that.' I cried. I said, anything else but that.

I could see the results. The more I would study my charts and look at the connections in my charts with astrology, seeing how that is not only coming from my lineage, we come from a lineage of astrologers, but also as a past life connection, if you will. I was really certain that this is what I was supposed to do here and continue carrying this legacy forward. I discovered I was a fourth generation astrologer, and this gave me the confidence to really take this seriously, because at the time when I learned astrology, I did not learn it with the intention of becoming an astrologer. To me, it was one more tool that I was using. After I left the cult at the age of 27 and came into astrology, my father said, 'Oh yeah, it runs in our lineage.' I felt such a deep sense of responsibility with using astrology for much more than just knowing myself, but to use it to also help other people know about themselves.

So, be open and receptive. Find a good system, a good teacher, a good mentor, and then take steps. Start somewhere. Even if it's small steps, take steps because do you know what's going to encourage you to keep going? Results. So, you got to take steps. You got to start somewhere. I tell my students all the time, you're never going to get anywhere with astrology if you don't practice. Practice with your friends. Practice. Take steps. And when you see results, even if they're small, that's what's going to encourage you to keep going and take the next step. So, don't give up. So my advice is to start somewhere. You definitely have to start. You have to look for it. You have to have that receptivity. Once you open up and have the receptivity, I would say to look for support, look for someone that you trust.

But you need focus. You need commitment. You need dedication. The more you focus on your north node, the more it becomes your power. Even though there is no sense of familiarity and no experience from the soul, it's designed to be your greatest expression of power in this lifetime. So all you have to do is focus there and follow that, no matter how you feel. It's that level of persistence. You do that, when you have that commitment and dedication to your purpose, regardless of how you feel, your purpose starts to open up to you, respond to you. It's a dance. If you know your purpose, once you know your purpose, there are going to be commitments, tests, challenges, and this is where your evolution happens. Now once you start to have an idea of what your purpose is, the next advice I would give is commitment. Commitment. Because it's one thing to find your purpose, let's say, or find something that you want to do next. Now, it's another thing to follow through. It's another thing to have the necessary commitment and dedication to see results.

In astrology, we see through people's charts that their purpose, their destiny, is 95% of the time something that most people resist. Your life won't happen. It won't work. You won't find satisfaction if you're not following your north node, your north star, your purpose. The reason people resist that for the most part is because it's uncharted territory. It's that fear of the unknown. There is no familiar sense of that path. So deep inside there is a deep knowing. We're all born with that sense of inner knowing, but then we deny it because it's uncharted territory. My greatest challenge in following my purpose, I would say, is the fact that it was my purpose. Because I'm so familiar with how this works, and I see this, it repeats in everybody's life. Because it's your purpose, it's also your greatest challenge and it is about getting outside your comfort zone. When we step into the unknown, this is where evolution happens. So my greatest challenge was to step into the unknown and say this is non-negotiable. Either I keep denying it, putting it off, and continue being sad, with all this repressed goodness inside of me that knows it's there and needs to come out, but I'm not allowing it to. Or I face my fears and I do it. That's what I chose to do.

My purpose is astrology, and my purpose is actually helping other people find their purpose through astrology. This is the interesting thing. It was through astrology that I discovered that astrology was my purpose. I remember that moment because it was a moment that I was learning about the lunar nodes in astrology. I always say the lunar nodes are my secret in astrology because the lunar nodes reveal, at the end of the day, the truth of your life path. There are many components in astrology, and when I got to the lunar nodes and started to understand and finally grasp the essence of that chart I was looking at, I began to connect the dots and put everything together. In astrology, through the lunar nodes, we see one aspect of your masteries, the trajectories, and the themes that you have already experienced. The lunar nodes come with this 180 degree polarity where the south node shows us where we're coming from, and the north node shows what we are here for. The lunar nodes dictate your purpose through the eyes of the soul, and that is an evolutionary perspective. That's the whole beauty of astrology. It helps you see what your south and north node are and gives you the roadmap to how to get there, how to follow it.