Heal Yourself

There is no such thing as a healer. You inspire people to heal themselves. Everyone has to do their own work. It's the relationship between you and the person on the other side. I learned that maybe 30 years ago with Reiki. I'm not sure that it wasn't the therapeutic alliance at that time that helped people or actually the Reiki, because most people don't get the attention they need and have someone who is patiently and presently listening to them. When they do, great transformations happen. The worst thing a healer can say is that they heal people because you don't. Yesterday I had a stage four person with cancer, multiple cancers. Two of her kids tried to commit suicide last year. She was a total mess. How could I heal her? You have to give her the tools. I worked with her for two hours and gave her a bunch of tools and she felt great afterwards, which is nice because she can understand that she could feel better than the state she was in when we started. But if she doesn't continue using those tools, nothing's going to happen. So, as a healer, you can show them the way, but they have to do the work. I think I help to empower people to be the best they can be. I don't heal people. I empower them to take care of themselves, to heal themselves, and to understand that they are great creators. And there's nothing to stop them but themselves.